Giving & taking

Money was never a big motivation for me. My conscious choose my husband & son rather than not have a career and neither I'm not a big shopper & expenditure. Most of all, I'm living in foreign country and the education degrees are not the same as the one I have. This make it very hard to get a proper and permanent job. My husband, my own family and closest friends- who knows me so well, they never prejudge for who I am. The fact is- I have a difficulty to understand those who hardly know me so well, always having a deem view of me being a creative house-wife and badly judged, too. My life honestly isn't as bad or weird as this person thought..... happiness is not the mere possession of money; it lies in the joy of thrill of creatives effort and what I love to do most. I. myself never bothering people that I don't know very well... what he or she did for living or how much they earned, It none of my interets. Bourgeois person as they are, shouldn't treat me the same as their egocentric. If you work just for money, you'll never make it: but if you love what you're doing and you always can achieve it then success will be yours.

Riddles. Just for fun!!! Try it...

1. What asks no question but demands an answer?

2. I've no voice and yet I speak to you. I tell of all things in the world that people do & does. I've leaves, but I am not trees. I've a spine & hinges but I'm not a man or a door. I can tell you more. What am I?

3. If a man were born in Spain, raised in France, come to America and died in San Francisco. What is he???

~**~tell me the answer or if you're curious I'll tell you thru my guestbook.

Would like to hear from other bloggers on this topic-

Why do people always think they are better & perfect than others? Some are also arrogance for their jobs status and look down their snotty-nose, beakering how successful they are and making distained remarks to those around them.

I would like to hear from other bloggers or visitors who read this posting to how do you tackle and react toward this type of snobbish person.

I've several 'someone's that I know for many years being so superior with an attitude like this. Yes, I ignored them and tried to avoid any arguement and not to involve myself too close whenever they are around. I won't careless what they think of me. Life is too short to label who's the "best & smart" and who's 'dumb &;stupid''. Adjusting to be like one of them is like a timid little kitten trying to be a ferocious lion. That's not who I wanted to be. For me, stop trying to please everyone, its never going to be possible, coz' you're not doing it for yourself but more or less doing it for them. In the end, it caused resentment and judgmental on both side. The outcome is acceptance... who and what that person is , not prejudice him or her for what they are. We're created by God the same way equally. Therefore if those snobbish or perfectionist can't accept the way we are or who I am... then they infact have a low self-esteem.

Dedication for my brother Nichol Intai-1963-2007

Sadly we lost our brother Nichol on 30th Nov. 2007- he was only 44 yrs. old, a hard working policeman, married and had 4 childrens. He was very much like at work and at home. Because he always mind his own business, hardly heated discussion nor critize anyone opnion and suggestion. My parent, my sisters-Maureen, Maurees, my younger brother Nibol and me- we missed him so much. His wife, Husun, and sons, Karlhanz, EricMelsteen, Solomon and little Ritchie misses their father the most. Sometimes I felt his presence left an impression upon my heart. Because he always very open-minded with me whenever I needed help. A goodtimes we had, he, his wife and me often goes out fishing near the Brunei border and elsewhere along the river. How I missed all that! In returned me, too- I always brought and bought him DvD movies whenever he asked for it. Until to this days, whenever I passed a dvd store- it broke my heart and bring tears to my eyes reminded me of him. He died from a cancer. May the Lord blessed his soul. He's not in pain anymore and heavenly angels will always guide him in a better devine place to Rest in peace. Amen